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Victim Vs. Responsible
By admin | February 11, 2010
Taking responsibility for where you are in life is very important. This is something I know from experience. Sometimes we feel that we would be better off or somewhere else, if we would of did a certain thing instead of what we did. We are unable to go back to yesterday and we can move forward to today and fix whatever it is that we need to. There are those that see themselves as the victim for there situation such as being the victim to the weather, the economy, their spouse, their family, or even God.
The first step to success is admitting failure. Admitting that you failed is okay. Accepting some level of responsibility for your circumstances produces a whole different set of emotions than being a victim. Simply ask yourself this question, “What choice did I make that allowed this circumstance to happen?” No one is perfect and that is something that we all must understand.
If you do not like where you are at in life currently, you can change that and be where you want to be. You might not get to where you want right away, however you will get there eventually because everything takes time. Now, on the other hand some feel they need to blame their problems or issues on someone else. Even if it is someone else’s fault, you can still find a solution to that problem and repair it. Sometimes I feel that I would be in a better place in my life if I would have made better choices. I have made some good choices, however they were not the best and I have also made bad choices, but they were not the worst. Believe it or not, there is someone else going through the same exact thing you are, so you are not alone. There are many things that we can do to change and make a difference. If you need to talk to someone, do so. Talking is one of the best ways to relieve stress, because you let it all out and you’re letting someone else know how you really feel.
Putting a guard or wall up really does not protect you from much. It is okay to let others in from time to time. Writing down your feelings is also another good way to alleviate stress. Staying positive is very good. Think only good positive things and positive things will come back to you. You are what you think. Making everyday count is important. If today was not the best day tomorrow will much better. You are your own boss and no one else is. You are only responsible for your actions and your actions only.
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February 11th, 2010 at 2:31 am
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